Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. ~Proust
It
was 2005 and at forty-five I’d finally fallen in love and moved to
Texas to be with the love of my life. This would be a big adjustment for
a city girl like me. John supported my decision to give up my almost 20
year job in retail to become a homemaker and take time to explore my
creative interests. I wanted to cook, bake from scratch, write my
masterpiece, garden, craft, do yoga and put retail management on the
shelf for a while to discover more of who I was inside.
My
main priority quickly became learning all I would need to know to get
our food choices in line with our health goals. I read, researched
experimented and developed a plan of action. We would eat fresh foods in
season, prepared simply in moderate proportions. We would eat smaller
meals more often and make our meals interesting and delicious. In no way
were we prepared to sacrifice our love of trying new foods, fine wines
and sweet treats. We were determined to find that balance between our
health and quality of life while never losing the pure joy we find in
eating all kinds of foods.
Forward to February 2010 John and I began talking about Valentines Day gifties. We had been learning about how the food we buy is sourced, reading Michael Pollan and realizing that the next step in our evolution would be to choose ingredients we felt were clean and ethically produced. To that end we decided that since Valentines Day is about our hearts, we would build beds and plant each other a garden that would care for and nurture our bodies and souls. I could think of no better gift. John built the beds and we prepared them for crops. He’d grown up in Ohio and his family had gardened every year so he was very familiar with what would follow. I grew up in Manhattan and did not know the first thing about what I was in store for. I did remember that my first year with John we planted a tomato and a squash plant and the feeling of bringing something into the kitchen that I had grown was so rewarding. I took photos as if we’d had a baby.
With
limited knowledge and unlimited enthusiasm I set out to comb the
Internet for information. It’s funny sometimes you don’t know what you
don’t know till you know it. I looked up planting layouts but forgot to
look up planting schedules. I planted summer kale and broccoli, which I
eventually found out are crops that thrive in cool weather. I learned
what happen when you don’t get the composters ratio balance correct (its
not pretty). I learned those pretty Disney like white moths will, if
unchecked, decimate my crops. On the other hand I learned that the pesto
I create from my own basil will transport me to herbal ecstasy and that
my non ending crop of cucumbers will provide succulent bread and butter
pickles that I will be enjoying all winter long.
During
this process I made a serendipitous connection between my twitter
account and my inaugural gardening endeavor. I love it when two hobbies
collide and both are made more enjoyable by the collision. I discovered a
community, gardeners of all sorts sharing information and helpful
hints. There were vegetable gardeners Landscapers, community activist
gardeners and cooking enthusiasts like me, making the move to grow their
own. I met some friends who deal with the unsung finer points of making
ones garden a success, providing tools, seeds, fertilizer and décor. I
learned of the magical properties of Moo Poo Tea, which insects were my
friends, which were foes and how be an obgyn for squash blossoms when
the bees never showed up to pollinate them.
John built these tiered strawberry beds |
My first
year with a garden has provided me with more than just fresh
vegetables. I have gained new friends, a feeling of accomplishment and
the knowledge that anyone can stretch their boundaries beyond their own
definitions of who they are and become what they dream of being.